You talk. You explain. You try to be reasonable.
And yet the same arguments resurface, often around the same themes.That isn’t because either of you is broken.
It’s because the way you interpret situations is fundamentally different.
Most relationship advice focuses on better communication.
That only helps when two people are already seeing the same thing.When they’re not, communication becomes repetition.
The same intentions. The same misunderstandings. The same conflict.
The Slide System™ focuses on interaction patterns rather than labels.Instead of asking who you are, it highlights why friction keeps emerging between two people and what assumptions are being missed.Understanding the pattern changes how you respond.
Conflict Insight Tool
A simple interactive tool that highlights why misunderstandings keep repeating between two people.It shows:
- where expectations clash
- why frustration escalates
- what usually makes things worseThis isn’t about blame. It’s about clarity.
Reveal your conflict pattern.
Insight changes behaviour
People don’t repeat arguments because they want to.
They repeat them because they don’t see the pattern they’re inside.Once the pattern is visible, different responses become possible.
If you want to explore these patterns further, this book provides additional background and perspective.
Your Social World Explained
Now in its second edition, this book explores why people repeatedly misunderstand each other and how hidden social patterns shape everyday interactions.
If you want personalised insight or have questions about your situation, you can get in touch here.
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